Sweet Nightdream,

I have similar problems with my mother too. I'm so sorry your mom is that way. My therapist has been helping me to distance myself from my mother- both physically and emotionally-- it's hard work , I don't think I could do it without support from him.

If possible, maybe you could try distancing yourself? Mothers are supposed to be kind, nurturing and help their children in rough times-- it really sucks for those of us that never had that nor never will.

Please know that we are here for you and care very much.

Your friend,

Mandy