Thanks hun,
Even tho they all (obviously) helped me, this one also hit me the most because the paper objective for the class was on forgiveness and i had such a hard time with that (in regards to my abuse history). So to get that from this prof (who is also a T) that forgiveness doesn't mean reconciling with the offenfer is HUGE and powerful for me. It justified the confusion and frustrations I had had with the course and affirmed that I am good - somehow. That I am still on firm ground and not "condemned" by my actions.
ok... long rant over
hugs