i don't do that sort of thing k? therapy for others k? we've lost plenty no problem but they've usually been temporaries anyway. i think i know how bad it might feel we've talked about integration in our circles and with the T ah noone's interested so it can't be so hot. but if ya integrated then she isn't lost huh? if we could all just be one i guess it would be okay it it didn't take like forever. no sense in that if you ask me just do it already. you could just go and post what you want here now that you and the alter are together are you? nona