Love blinds us to those things, makes us explain away the littles as no big deal, the bigs as a misunderstanding. It isn't until you step away from the relationship that you see the totality of the issue.
Do all men lie? Well Do all women lie?? Human nature has us tell fibs I think. Say how much we paid for a purse or a pair of shoes. We'll he;ll lie about how much he lost at the poker table....not ment to hurt the other just releave the stress a bit. But as we get away with those it gets easier to lie about why we were late. No there wasn't a traffic accident, it was chatting with the hot guy at the office but that would upset him so we use traffic. Then even bigger until it ruins a life. I'm sorry If I'm not making any sense now. I started with a good thought then my sleeping pill set in and I think I am rambling. Point!!! All people lie! Not just men....There I think I got to it