i didn't used to be able to tell people about my depression either. it doesn't bother me any more- in fact, i want them to know so maybe i can help to dispel some of the stigma about all of it. And i don't necessarily think saying that i am better when i am on meds means i am a danger when i'm not . in fact i don't think i have ever really been a danger. i look at it as being on meds for any other condition. my husband has to take meds for his blood pressure. his blood pressure is great but it probably wouldn't be without the meds. and my life probably wouldn't be nearly so good without my meds. i don't know if that makes any sense to you or not, its just kind of how i look at it. I think its better to do what we can for ourselves to make our lives better- the meds aren't a cure but they sure do help.