PC is a wonderful place to get feed back on how others might see our situation even though they don't have ALL the facts.

Many times we are so emotionally involved in our situation....as the saying goes...."we can't see the forest for the trees"....Sometimes what others see because they are not involved emotionally can help a lot & help us see things we might not other wise see or even think of on our own.

Many people have had similar situations they can draw from their personal experiences.

I have found for myself, that when I can put my thoughts down in writing, I can get a better understanding of what I am really thinking....a place to organize my thoughts. Also having a place to safely vent what we are thinking is very important. We can't hold all the bad inside or we will explode...& if in the process, others can help with some thoughts & ideas that can help.....so much the better.

The supportive hugs & sympathetic understanding & caring helps us feel that we are not alone also.

The most imortant support comes sometimes where there are many people providing similar thoughts.....that is usually the time to really start listening & thinking about what changes really need to be made & where out thinking we have had might not be working.....it gives us some input & other's experiences to draw from to give us ideas to work with in our own lives.

No where can anyone draw from such a wide base of people with similar mental issues & experiences to help find answers & ideas & understanding & caring & help sort out confusion.

I hope you continue posting & seeking answers to your questions for your confusion. It takes time to sort throuht everything. Please stay safe more than anything else though & take care of yourself when things like this happen & know that we all care & will try to help as much as we possibly can.


Debbie