Hello, I third all of the above. First off you need to develop and escape plan. Are there ways you can sneak away money, important docs, clothes without him knowing? If so do so now. Also, if he is computer savvy download diskeeper and erase all evidence of where you have been on line. By all means call the closest shelter. They can help with short and long term issues. Do not tell your kids what is going on. Do contact social welfare once you are out and see about stable childcare for kids so you can get on your feet. I don't think I saw where you are from, U.S. is where I am so my advice may be slanted. What a brave woman you are. Please take care and stay in touch here. let us know what is happening.