(apologies in advance for those who don't like these terms of endearment) Honey, you are doing great. I want to go and stand beside you at graduation. You are a loving good soul and you are a good mom. Take the drugs, hell, thank the great spirit we have the drugs. You are a normal human with pain and sorrow and we all have our crosses to bear. You are brave, you are honest, you will do fine. By the way, even if you don't have friends to go to graduation with you, do you have supports from the woman's shelter etc to go and act like they are your friends? I would do it in a heart beat.