So there are several books out there on how to survive growing up with a Borderline mother or a mentally ill mother in general. I am a Borderline, and I have a 3 year old daughter. I would like to read one of these books to find out what I should be doing right so my own daughter won't be reading one of those books 20 years from now! I want to do things right!

Have any of you read any of these books? Which would you recommend, and why/why not? If you know of a better book that I didn't list, let me know. Thanks!

Understanding the Borderline Mother: Helping Her Children Transcend the Intense, Unpredictable, and Volatile Relationship

http://www.amazon.com/Understanding-...3408491&sr=1-1

Surviving a Borderline Parent: How to Heal Your Childhood Wounds & Build Trust, Boundaries, and Self-Esteem

http://www.amazon.com/Surviving-Bord...3408709&sr=1-2

Daughters of Madness: Growing Up and Older with a Mentally Ill Mother

http://www.amazon.com/Daughters-Madn...3408709&sr=1-3