~hugs~ Thanks, some days visiting the cemetary are good, some not so much. Ya know, when I was a kid the cemetary was such a spooky scary place and it was a dare to go in there, esp at night. Now i feel so comfortable there that it's kinda scary. Even the kids do. And that makes me sad to see a 14, 11 and two 4 yrs olds play and frolick in there. They aren't uncomfortable, they don't get the creepies. Is it odd that this is something that I fixate on? this is something that I can't quit thinking about. How their innocence was taken from them about death. but it's such a mixed bag of nuts, kinda like me LOL, cuz I don't want them to be scared of it but I don't like that they've been there so much that it's just like any other piece of land to them....ugh...I know I am over thinking it........