I agree with MittenXonXKittens. All of us aren't stereotypical "gay men". I like a man that's masculine and just a regular guy. A feminie guy is a real turn off to me so I don't get into that and don't go places if that's the kind of guy that's there. There are some guys out there that are bi but only hang out with straight or married men because they feel that will prove they aren't gay. What difference does it make anyway. If you enjoy masturbating with other "regular" guys, enjoy yourself.