Zen i'm sure your lady parts look perfectly normal. The woman in the room is to protect you, so that there is someone so that the Dr. 'can't' assult you. They are suposed to make sure there is no inapproperiate contact with the physical exam.
I bet if you were to ask the dr he'd said there is no 'normal' issue lady parts, everyone is unique in the way their body was built. ~hugs~