You don't sound very over him to me. If he really feels the same way, he won't be able to stop himself from telling you.

Don't show your cards so quickly. If he wants a hug, when you see him in person, wait until he asks for it. And even then, make it a quick hug.

Having an open heart is a wonderful thing... with the right person. My recommendation is that you be only as open as he is; not more so, for now.