I'm not very comfortable with posting here but here I go anyway lol

I'm not sure if I am Bi or Lesbian but I am guessing Bi here lol I was always a tomboy as a little girl and never liked girly stuff much until my later years in life.

Here is my dilemma: I will notice a good looking guy but do not want him approaching me or touching me and get very very annoyed when a guy flirts with me but I was sexually abused as a little girl for a little less than a year so I don't know if it is as a result of that that I don't feel sexually attracted to men? I do drool over movie stars lol but that is as far as it goes. With girls I feel more that I am more attracted too them and more comfortable with. I have never dated men or woman because of this confusion and now I feel than I am to inexperienced and not sure how to go about starting to date.

Family and work: At work it is very hard, my bosses wife is a newly reborn christian and she says that we are going to hell, but that we can be changed if we asked for help so I am very scared that she will find out and arrange an exorsist to help me lol She is messing with my head and everytime she opens her mouth I feel worst and guiltier about my feelings.

My mother says she is okay with gay people but she is always telling me not to wear certian things because people will think I'm gay and almost found myself telling her just out of anger. Mysister kind of knows and pretends to be a little ok with it but looks uncomfortable and doesn't want to talk about it with me so i have no one els.

Any advise would greatly be appretiated.