Hi *freak*,

I'm sorry to hear about your grandfather. 24 days is in no way enough time to begin to heal. Heck, after 24 days you're probably still in shock and numb and afraid to grieve because the pain might crush you.

All of that is okay. Everyone grieves differently and they do it in their own time, so please try not to set any limits or time frames. Try to get some rest and nourishment because sometimes grief is so "in your face" that we forget to take care of ourselves. Loss just plain sucks.

Can you find a therapist in your area that can help you begin to deal with it?
Coming here and talking about it can also be very helpful or maybe try one of these websites.

http://www.groww.org/

http://www.journeyofhearts.org/

http://www.onlinegriefsupport.com/forum