((muffy))))) first i want to give you a big hug, it will not change truths or facts, but it can show that there are others who do care and really want to help even if it feels like its never enough, it can show how we are a human family and that we are all connected in some way.. being connected by loss shows us that loss and suffering is a thing that brings us together in caring and wanting things better for ourselves and others too.. its sad that a child takes his/her life.. sad that somehow, someway, the child was left alone too long at a time when they really needed an adult to show up and be there for them.. its sad that there is not more connection on both sides, the childs and the outside world... i know it is a cry for help and its painful that we know we cannot now help this child in any way, that he is now gone... what we can do is see how there was an opening for us to get closer together in a time before this happened and we can learn that next time we will try harder to be there for them somehow, as individuals or as a society... we can hear this childs last cry of pain and we can say to ourselves that we have to try harder to help others and listen and care... so many of us are doing that, i wish he had heard ...

sending love and caring always kind one