During sex this afternoon I admitted to my wife that I had fantasized about her having sex with another man.

She was immediately, and obviously repulsed, locked herself in the bathroom. Now says she doesn't think she knows me. She feels uncherished and used. She keeps saying I want to pass her around to my friends like a *****.

Its only been 10 hours, but its not a normal fight.

Her reaction. No trying to understand, no love. No "That grosses me out why would you think that?" Just hate and repugnance.

Is my marriage doomed?