I'm not condoning your parents actions.

however if you mean New York by NY, then your drug laws are actually pretty lax when it comes to pot (im also assuming you mean pot when you say stoners, forgive me if im wrong) . you need to have up to a pound for it to even be considered a felony. anything up to that is a simple misdemeanor that caries a fine. a small jail sentence can be imposed if said defendant cant make the fine, however the maximum sentence can not exceed 30 days.

i understand your uneasiness of your parents smoking pot. my parents where stoners too, and for the most part i accepted it. however i was sworn to secrecy and told many times that if i said too much at school that mommy and daddy would be going away for a long time. they where selfish and laid a major head trip on a very young child.

and that is what your parents are being, selfish. it's very human like to be upset when your parents choose a drug over you. their probably not going to change though, because once again, that's human nature. forgive them, they may come around in due time.

i hope the information i provided you does un-do some tension that if your parents get caught they will probably not do a large amont of time. you dont need anymore stress in the situation as it is.