I broke off the relationship with my mother over 5 years ago and it was the best thing I have ever done. Now in my situation there was phycical, emotional, and neglect abuse from her when I was a child. Even my therapist said it was the best decision I have ever made. The only thing is others responses especailly relatives. They don't understand how a MOTHER can be abusive. Don't pay attention to those people that try to make you feel guilty. You will never regret doing what is best for yourself even if nobody else understands it. Good luck, and keep in touch.