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I dont know exactly what kind of retirement it is other than I know its not a 401K.
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An important step to take if there is the slightest chance divorce or separation is in the future is to familiarize yourself with all of the family finances, accounts, debts, assets, etc. Actually, even if divorce is not in the offing, it is good for anyone to do this. Every spouse should be aware of family finances.
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Our 3 kids are all under the age of 18 and I have been a stay at home mom for most of our marriage. The few jobs I have had were just part time minimum wage jobs.
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If your H were to keep working, you would definitely be able to receive spousal maintenance. Since it sounds like he may not plan to work (is that right? or can he draw the military retirement if he is employed?), I am not sure if you could get maintenance because presumable his income would take a big cut. I suggest you see a lawyer right away to learn about all of this. There may be some important timing issues. It's always good to have information, even if you don't plan to act on it. Just in case...
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As of right now divorce is not in the picture but he has told me he wants a seperation and divorce has been mentioned so Im just trying to find out some kind of info just in case it comes down to that. Its not what I want but you know how that goes.
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I'm sorry this is happening. Does your H want a legal separation or just to live separately but still remain married, supporting you and the kids, etc.? I think you're really smart to be trying to get the info now.
I don't know what JAG is, but if it is a legal resource, might be worth looking into.