yes its addictive...i thiink i have become addicted......
a T is helping me - I hope you have or will get a T to help you
I know my SI has escalated and become dangerous so your wife is right to be worried -
as Doggybonz said - think what you would do if this was your wife with the problem - how would you help her to help herself -
if i seem short please forgive me - I do not mean to be
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts 
its how many times you get back up! 
(Thanks to fenrir for my Picture 
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When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown,
Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly.
by Patrick Overton, author and poet