I get this. I also get "I don't think you are bipolar..." all the time! Then I get "Oh- you're exhausted? Should I go with you to the doctor to hear why?" Total nasty sarcasm and telling me I'm basically a loser because I can't keep my eyes open during the day. Never allowed to be messy or make any mistakes nevermind have a manic phase. I just leave and disassociate, drink, spend money, get lost.... They think going from manic to depressed or having a mixed episode is a party.