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Originally Posted by Amazonmom
Don't move until you believe it is the right thing for you, your stability, and the relationship.
Waiting until the time is right gives the relationship the best chance to succeed long term.
Boyfriend may want you back home right now, but it sounds like he has issues of his own to work on. The drinking concerns me, especially since he has a pattern of drinking too much and blaming you for it.
I'm not saying NEVER move back in, just make sure you are making the healthiest choice possible. Especially since you are going to be disrupting the rest of your life if you move back.
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You are so right. Last night, he kept calling me after my Seroquel XR kicked in... I was too tired to fight, so finally, I just hung up and turned off the ringer. He's now popping pills on top of the drinking... I express ANY concern and I get hit with "You need to worry about yourself and leave me out of it". UGH!