that is good Del, that you can do that and be firm. I applaud you!

For me... i can't say the *words*. everything is in code. and Dr doesn't understand code. and i know her - if she's worried about something she says "I have to see you!" and i can't let her. the last time we did this dance, she sent me to the ER. I know her, i can't let her see. as for my other female concern, i can't let any one see. the flashbacks are too terrible. but for you i can be strong =) and for my sis silversparrow.