OH thats what caused the first laugh, when I was saying how I am already shutting down preparing for the summer break T said, "but you do realise this is the longest term without a break?" Of course she was offering me this as comfort but I turned to her and said "bothered" and we both laughed out loud! , I think having anger and humour mixed together is very helpful, perhaps a lot more people should take anger with a pinch of salt and not get all melodramatic its sure good for the sole