i didn't mean to say it personally to you, it was a quick reply so it shows it as a reply to the last post

and what i meant, for everyone, that i do understand that these kinds of things are confusing/ annoying/ upsetting or whatever.. but can't we just let it go? Before this becomes another fight, then this thread would have to be locked, that someone would make another thread about locking this thread and so on and so on....

I think the fighting is much more upsetting to everyone, than a few G or F words, or the confusing rules of the use of them. The mods are just people, too.

At least the fighting makes me nervous and because arguments seem to catch fire so easily here these days, i've found it more and more uncomfortable coming here at all