Your...what are you looking at comment made me laugh. I have thid thought a lot in other interactions. I like the fact that my T doesn't look right at me, especially when I am struggling and squirming. I think she gets how difficult it is for me that she is even in the same room.:-) I know she is is watching me and how I react but some how she does it without me feeling really looked at. Some people have commented on little things that there Ts do to make a point or let you know they are still with you. My T uses direct eye contact in this way. Kind of like.... Yes I hear you and you're not scaring me a way. Or yes, I heard what you said, but we both know there is more your not telling. Yes, I realize this is difficult but..you need to continue to speak.