I too have touch issues. I absolutely fear going to the doctors office. My therapist has helped me to find a doctor that is female and understands my issues. She spoke with this doctor about my touch issues and fears. I can say that for the past two years I have gone for a routine physical and mamogram. I cannot get myself to allow a gyn. exam/pap test. But i's a start. I am almost 50 so it is important for my physical health to see a doctor at least once a year. I am healthy with no problems so far. I recently needed pysical therapy for a shoulder injury but had to quit because I did not like the physical therapist touching me so much. With my own therapist who I have known forever I can asked to be hugged and feel safe with that touch.