I think that allowing the attachment to happen (even if you allow it to happen unconsciously) is a leap of faith. The therapeutic relationship seems almost like a microcosm of our relationships outside of the room. Taking such a huge risk with your T would be taking a positive step toward living your life rather than allowing your fears to control you. If you can do it with your T, then you know you are capable of it outside of the therapy setting as well.

I think it is also very advantageous because it may free you to be more open to self-disclosure, which (with t's support) can eventually lead to healing. In my case, I honestly think I needed that strong bond or I wouldn't have been able to talk about painful things in the way that I did. It is also something that I keep in my heart as a memory of my therapist.