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Originally Posted by searchingmysoul
(((dreamseeker)))
It sounds as if both you and your T are getting more comfortable in your relationship (you allowing tears and acknowledging holding back, her drawing you out a little more). From what you write it seems at a good pace for you.
I have only been seeing my T for about 2 months individually, but she was my couple's counselor before for approx 8 months, so she is still very tentative with me, (or maybe I with her?). I don't hold back my tears, but if she asks for more info or for me to elaborate more on an issue and I say no or shake my head no then the topic is off the table. She is very gentle about this which has been very good for me. I do think that this approach is "for now" with us and I think as time goes on, and I develop trust in our relationship, I won't be so quick to reign things in.
Take care.
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Thanks! Yes, I think it is a good pace for us, I'm just so impatient. I've actually gotten a bit better about letting pressure off myself. But I'm just wondering if it will take a little nudge from my T to get those tears out, or if I need to keep being patient with myself and let it come naturally. This week's session was the toughest yet for me, and I was amazed that I didn't actually cry.
It sounds like you have a wonderful T who doesn't push you too much, that's terrific!
