I often feel that people don't care about me either. I feel that I've given so much to everyone, and get nothing in return. Maybe we expect too much from people? I think people are generally disappointing. I know that is a sad comment, but so many people have let me down, including my own spouse. (Not telling me about his depression) and (acting like a great fun guy at work and coming home and taking me and the kids for granted)... Life isn't fair, but I guess we have to muddle through and be strong. I have a friend who says that some people need to be more selfish and stop expecting things from others. It does seem cynical, but she does get everything she wants. What is the answer? Life is hard.