My husband was listening to me talk about some painful things from my past, and jumped into the conversation with 'the people who hurt you don't think about you. They won't come see you, call you, or even waste time thinking about you.' I couldn't believe he said that! He said he was trying to make me feel safe! I say he was trying to hurt me by rubbing the obvious in. I am so upset right now! He was supposed to be the one who didn't abuse me, now this crap! Thanks for letting me vent!