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Originally Posted by turquoisesea
I relate. For me it was important to get the child part comfortable and happy.. Find things she likes and have them around. She was happy that I got some tink pj pants the other day =) little things like that, a stuffed animal... something that part will like helps so much. The safer the child part feels the more likely you'll be able to work with that part.
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tink!
pajamas!
stuffed animals awwwww
i think you made nice good suggestions for peaches. Trust is important...have to have trust to communicate and have to communicate to have agreement. Don't need to "control" a part, need to communicate, care for, be honest with and compromise. With agreement, no power struggles. All parts deserve to participate in life.