GG, i do not have a problem with you. i do have a problem with your behavior. your life is totally consumed by your head. if you've read any of my posts on other forums, you would have known that i am direct. if you take the time to ask for help, which you've done, then i'm not going to beat around the bush when i try to help you. i'm sorry if you feel that i dislike you or am cranky towards you. i don't see you accepting "subtle" help and i hardly ever often subtle advice. again, i don't have a problem with you. good luck in finding a solution to your problems. pat