Hi Sparrow,

I didn't see this either till now . And ive been talking about the horrors of what can happen to abuse victiums in thier exams. I didn't knowI was a victium when these happened.
You do and thats a big plus.

If you can possibly share with the doctor you are I think this would be helpful.

She will take extra precautions and check in with you to make sure you are okay . And can stop if needed . A friend who knows your circumstances would be a very good support.
physisians are suppose to not share any info with others unless they have a sighned release.

you can just share this with the doctor and not the attending nurse.

you could also ask about will happen if you share the abuse. with her will it be written down in your record etc,

I know this is hard, And i recognize the need to protect the rest of the family from what happened.

its not right we suffer alone . but we do.



Patricia