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Jun 03, 2009, 04:30 PM
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Member Since: May 2009
Location: TRUCKEE, BA
Posts: 11
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Originally Posted by Tishie
My ex husbands family (married for fifteen years) knew exactly what he was and felt sorry for me, often made comments to him about being lazy !
Yet when I eventualy left him they all (without exception) 'joined' his side and shunned me, that was three sisters their partners, children (some of whom was adults) and his mother and father.
One who I classed as a friend even went to the extreme of phoning me and telling me it was fifty fifty lol. But as it was her brother she 'must' side with him !
I would try to let his family go in your head.
You may also be suprised at how much he will change towards you ie becoming cold and bitter, expect it then anything else is a bonus....  |
THANK YOU TISHIE. I AM SO SORRY THAT THOSE PEOPLE HAVE TREATED YOU SO HARSHLY. IF YOU DON'T MIND MY ASKING, HOW LONG AGO DID THEY BEGIN THIS? IT IS INTERESTING BUT SO SAD ABOUT YOUR FRIEND. BEFORE I SEPARATED I FULLY REJECTED A FRIENDSHIP THAT WE HAD HAD FOR 30 YEARS. THE HUSBAND WAS A VERY UNHEALTHY, JUDGEMENTAL AND CRUEL MAN AND HE JUST WENT TOO FAR WITH SOMEONE AND THAT WAS FINALLY IT. I WANTED TO KEEP THE FRIENDSHIP WITH THE WIFE BUT SHE REJECTED ME BECAUSE I REJECTED HIM. THEY ARE NOW MY HUSBADS BEST SOURCE OF SUPPORT (NO REGRETS ON MY PART).
HOW ARE YOU AT THIS TIME?
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