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Old Jun 03, 2009, 09:52 PM
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just wanted to come here and add my support.

"She lives in another state and part of me feels like I need to go visit her but the other part of me does not really want to be around anyone. I feel guilty about this and this only adds to my feelings of depression"

feeing two things at the same time is horrible. But it's natural and I think it happens to everyone at some point. You don't need to feel guilty about not wanting to see your mom. There are pros and cons on both side and it's ok to see them all. That does not make you a bad person.

sending hugs
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