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Originally Posted by rainbow8
I get disappointed and hurt easily, and I'm not sure if this is due to low self-esteem, expecting too much, wanting too much, or what. I know the world doesn't center around me, but often I wish it did. Even like posting on PC. I feel so disappointed when I don't get responses. Or in RL if people talk to someone else and ignore me. I know my T has told me it should be okay either way: I get the attention or I don't. Self-esteem shouldn't depend on how others treat me (unless it's abusive), right?
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Its one of those, "intellectually" I Know, , but emotionally the pain still remains. Its more about not having got what we needed at a much younger age, once we get that need met, we can then begin to take ownership off our own well-being.