yep I dont think he meant any harm I think it was the I have to fix it thing men seem to have - let him know what you needed - and he can do better next time - you are triggery - I hear that! - thats hard for people to deal with - geez its sooo hard for US to deal wth let alone anyone else

have a chat and see if you can sort it out - he is prob very confused thinking he did the right thing .... you need to let him know what you really needed - think i said that .... hmm sorry hit my head a couple of days ago so may not be making much sense - concussion speaking again!

take care of you ok - vent if you need to - we are here to listen -