You know, some people will always have difficulty living by the rules. In life, online, whatever. We have a set of rules here and we ask people respectfully, since we're all adults here, to please try and follow. When the rules are broken, threads get locked or moved. It's that simple. It's like that on practically every other online community I know, and it makes a lot of sense.
My bio has been online as long as my site (we're in our tenth year now). If you can't be bothered to read it, that's not my fault. Your tone and implication are both meanspirited, but I think it's equally important you be heard.
You want to vent how this community is run, believe it or not, we don't have a forum for that!
I'm sorry we have failed you. I do hope you find happiness elsewhere in your life.
DocJohn