Wow, I'm not sure what I give T in the relationship. I might ask him when he comes back from vacation.

I know that he enjoys me and my sense of humor. I know he feels connected to me, and that the "attachment goes both ways". I know he loves me. So maybe all of that feels good to him? He says he appreciates how hard I work...

I give him a LOT of work to do and keep him on his toes. So maybe he likes being busy?? lol