((((((((((((((((P7))))))))))))))))))))

Just because you are in therapy doesn't mean you won't (or shouldn't) have normal, human reactions to things that are scary or make you feel bad. In fact, you SHOULD react to things that are scary and make you feel bad. That shows you where your boundaries are.

I hope that person stopped calling. You did a good thing coming here to vent. I hope you also stopped answering the phone. I totally agree with stumpy - caller ID is the best!!!!

You are doing fine. You are not wasting anyone's time. You are learning and growing and that is a slow and GOOD thing.