Hey don't be so hard on yourself. It's not the amount of time that you spend but the kind of time that you spend with your daughter. My daughter is now 17 getting ready to turn 18 and I don't remember alot of the things we "did" together when she was little. I was a single mom until she was 4 and unemployed. When I would go to the grocery store I would make it a game, like counting eggs (checking for broken ones) or trying new foods at the deli counter. I never really even taught my daughter to cook cause I hate to clean the mess and I feel bad about that. As for your home, giver yourself credit for what you accomplish even if it is small (folding a load of laundry). I am bipolar 2, and I have good intentions when it comes to cleaning or organizing my house. As for my daughter, she left me a note that was about an english assignment. In it she wrote that I was her hero because I was there for her and supported her in what her decisions were. She just had a baby in Dec, married her boyfriend and father of her child in Mar graduated high school in May.