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Old Jun 05, 2009, 08:48 AM
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I wonder if I should think of my current relationship with my T as an "extended" vacation. I understand how hard it is for all of you, since I was there! I remember when 2 weeks in between sessions seemed like an eternity! Then I did 3 weeks, then 4. Sometimes I coped better than other times. Now it's been a month since my session and I'm doing pretty well. There was a "crisis" but we solved it.

Is it different when T is out-of-town? I worried about her when she was away, but did better when I was away.

I really think the key is feeling and knowing in your heart that your T is there for you even when he/she is not with you. I'm feeling that way now, though holding my breath that it will last! Good luck to those struggling with this.