I am getting the feeling more and more that T really does care...like monday when I said I wanted to leave now and she said, "I'm not falling for that one again" and today talking about my experiences with getting to know my children when born for who they were and T pointing out thats exactly what my adoptive mother DIDN'T do, and I suddenly said, "I dunno, perhaps I'm making all this up" and T pointed her finger at me and said "Don't start that again", I dunno, it feels nice and very, very real on her behalf, I dunno I think she really cares, and I dunno, but I think I really like that she really cares!!! I dunno.