My ex became completely insensitive, we used to be very active as a couple, hillwalking and climbing. Until i was diagnosed with a physically debilitating problem and had a breakdown things were good but after he just didnt accept it, he would leave me at times, unable to get up and feed myself so he could go play in the mountains with his friends and still have the cheek to say that i made him feel guilty for doing it! We were married a long time and i did everything for him, even doing his washing on my hands and knees in the end only to be told that i hadnt done the washing up! Needless to say, it got to the point i couldnt take any more so we are no longer together. Life is much better in some respects, i have to depend on my daughter and friends but at least they care. Im still disabled and still trying to sort my head but at least im the only person nagging myself now