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Old Jun 06, 2009, 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted by chaotic13 View Post
I like this statement too.

I am always thinking that my T is going to critize or tell me that am wrong or need to change. But she never really does. Unfortunately I still struggle with accepting my SELF.

Regarding Sunrise's comments I'm not sure whether my T would accept or resist attachment? I guess she kind of has accepted it so far. I guess you don't tell someone, "I'm safe talk to me, email me if it helps you if you don't want them to connect with you. IDK..
I can totally relate to this chaotic. That fear of criticism can be so strong for me too...

To me it seems as if your T is going with the "attachment" in your relationship at your pace, letting you set the timeline. This is probably really good because if she were either too forceful or if you felt that she rejected you needing your own pace you would sense this and run for the hills. From what you write here at PC she seems very well matched to you.
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