(((((((Leslie and Pixies))))))))

Breathe---
I understand where you are at right now. It is really hard when H is in this spot and you are trying your best to be supportive and he sees it as "fixing".

Walking on eggshells is hurting you and your little pixies. Try and let the subject drop and continue to be who you are. If he is verbally attacking, you may have to assure him you are available if he would like to talk to you but not at you. Walk away from the situation and let him blow off steam in another room.

He is most likelly feeling that his ego has been damaged. Men are mostly tied to their job as thier sense of self worth. Saying some thing like, I sense you are feeling like you are not appreciated in your job..." may open up some communication.

Men are difficult--and they say we are LOL

Just some thoughts from the constellation for what they are worth.