The only person you should ever change for is yourself. If someone really loves you then they should love you for who you are not who you could be when they have moulded you into a doormat. My ex flirted with everyone but woe betide me if someone dared to flirt with me! When we first got together he thought it was cool that other people fancied me. Over the last few years of our marriage after i had a breakdown, he would flirt with and compliment anyone, but never complimented me and he didnt want anyone else to either. In the end i couldnt talk to anyone incase they said something he didnt like. He went thru my emails and everything just incase, thing is i loved him and had done for nearly 20 years, never dreamed of having an affair all i wanted was him. While he was doing all this to me though he was also getting to know his 'best friend' calling her babe on the phone and email and taking plenty of pictures of her!
I am happy now tho nearly 2 years on with a very special man who accepts both my physical disability and my mental states, dont stay where you are not happy, loved and accepted for who you are ~ there is so much more ~ we all deserve to be happy. 
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**Shadowsilence** All that we see or seem is but a dream within a dream....change is eternal, perpetual and immortal.
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