hey, that's ok!!

i'm so sorry ppl ridicule you about it, why does it matter to them?

as long as you are happy with what you do, then it shouldn't matter to anyone else. i am a very girly girl, and ppl often say negative things about me being a "princess" and the like. so sometimes i wonder if it's just that ppl need to be cruel.

but i can definitely understand why you would have it harder . at least i "fit" the role i'm meant to play.

i dont really know if i have any advice, i just try to ignore it (although it still hurts). do these comments come only from specific people, or is it a general sort of thing? i'm just trying to figure out if it's only a group (maybe you can avoid them, or maybe confront them), but if it's something like -- the boys waiting at the bus stop also, then it gets a bit more difficult.

i hope someone else can chip in with something more helpful.

i still accept you for who you are. i dont care that you dont fit the girly stereotype. i admire your strength to follow what you're comfortable with and stay true to yourself despite other ppl running you down .